The Human, His Mind and His God

Tuesday, 30 July 2013



William Shakespeare has once expressed that all the world is a stage and we are bound to play our role in this stage.  He has described the life span of a human being as seven stages.  He describes the last stage of a human being -  that is the old age - as  second childhood.  The child needs support from others to stay active and so is the case with the old people also.  The child has no teeth and the old age also is toothless.  The child needs a support to stand and the same is the case with old people also. Shakespeare gives us a hint that we have to give proper care to the old people as we do with our children.

But unfortunately, we are living in a world where the old people are not taken care of properly.  It is evident from the number of old age homes, which are emerging like anything in this world.  Actually, do we need any old age homes actually?  Of course I am not against old age homes, since it is needed to look after the old people with nobody to look after them.  It is duty of this society to look after the old.


THE EMERGENCE OF SOCIETY


THE EMERGENCE OF SOCIETY


A most important part of human life is his married life.  It also forms a very major portion of his life span.  Let us think a little bit about how the system  of marriage came into human life.  If we believe that god created men and women and then they in turn gave birth to their children and marriage was very much in existence from the very beginning of human race, then  there is nothing to think hard of how the system of marriage came into human life.

Let us think about this in  another manner -  that there was no system of marriage  and family life from the beginning of human race.  But we cannot escape from the fact that sex had an important part in human life.  So there was a sex life in each individual’s life , but that was not like the life we lead in the civilized society.  Sex just happened in each one’s life and there was no emotional bond between the sexual partners. 

And in the olden days people lead  a stranded life.  They thought about themselves and nothing else bothered them.  But they were afraid of the animals and natural calamities and slowly they began to depend each other in times of emergencies.  This lead to the necessity of a communal life and they began to live in communes.  When they started to live in communes, they – especially the men - began to compare each others and began to envy others.  Naturally they began to develop a feeling of possessiveness in terms of their sexual partners. Men and women began to like each others as their partners and there was a total chaos in the communes.  This resulted in the development of a social set up and the communes needed somebody to rule them.  Naturally there began a life with certain disciplines and this slowly lead to the family life. 

Men began to select women as their life partners and this in turn gave way to the system of marriage.  But even then the married life was not so strong as it is in the present age.  This was because women were ruled by men in the olden days.   Slowly women began to earn a strong position in the society and this made some difference in the married life also.  Women attained a position equal to that of men in this civilized society. Marriage became a very strong part not only in human life, but also in social life. 

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Wednesday, 8 August 2012

DIVORCE AND THE CHILDREN


DIVORCE AND THE CHILDREN

I have often wondered why people get divorced.  Is family relations so weak in our society ?  What is happening to the human life when people give least consideration to relationships ?

As a human being who believe in relationships I am very much concerned about the growing number of divorces.  It is very alarming to understand that the present generation is more advanced than the old one in  getting divorce without giving much care to the family values.

I am living in the state of Kerala in India and recently Ihad read about the number ofdivorce cases of the current year.  In twenty  family courts  situated at different parts of Kerala, the number of divorce cases registered during the current year upto July 30 is 16315.  Just have a look at the statistics of divorce cases from the year 2005 – 2006 onwards:-

  Year                                 No. of Cases
2005-06                                     8456
2006-07                                     9775
2007-08                                     9937
2008-09                                    11194
2009-10                                    11600
2010-11                                    11600
2011-12 (upto July30)               16315

The most interesting factor is that the distrct with the highest number of divorce cases is in Trichur District which is known as the cultural capital of Kerala.  

We can see from the statstics shown above, the increase in the number of divorce cases every year.   This statistics belongs to just one state in India and I am sure that the number will shoot up like anything, if we take the complete statistics in India.  Most probably the same will be the case if we study the number of divorces in the whole world.

What is happening to the people all over the world ?  Formarly marriage was considered to be a relationship for the whole life.  And the family as a whole with father, mother and children was considered to be a heaven.  What made human beings to destroy this heaven ?  What are they going after when they get divorced and go for another marriage.
The most tragic part of divorce is the life of the kids of the couple who gets a divorced.  I will say that these couple have betrayed their children.  Parental care is the most important indispensable factor of childhood and if they don’t get it at the right time they will get spoiled.  People have become so self centered that they don’t give proper attention to their children. 

These children who are deprived of love of their parents are the assests of the nation.  As such we should give them proper care and love and help them to become a strong and loving generation, rather than going for a divorce for silly reasons.

Saturday, 28 July 2012

BASIC NECESSITIES OF LIFE


BASIC NECESSITIES OF LIFE




Food, Clothing and Shelter are considered to be the basic necessities of human life.  Of course it is true that these three ingredients form the major factor that controls the human activities.  It is true that God appears in front of a poverty stricken human being in the form of food. When hunger is taken care of , then our mind thinks about covering our body.  God again appears in front of us in the form of clothing.  When we had finished clothing, then we look around ourselves and feel the heat of the sun and we feel restless with many of the factors of the nature namely rain, dust, wind etc.  Then God appears in the form of shelter in front of the human being.

We see God in the form of three basic necessities of life, but what happens to the human being after he has been blessed with food, clothing and shelter ?  Then he defines God according to his wims and fancies.  He keeps God at a distance and always fills the space between himself and God with so many other necessities.  He often prays to God to bless him with more money, more  assets, more power etc.  And in his race to acquire these things, he often forgets the presence of God.  He is possessed with greed for money and power, which forms the major ingredients of human life in this century.

This greed for money and power often tends him to adopt  inhuman practices.  He becomes less and less concerned about the people around him.   Thus he begins his ruthless play of life with no concern for others.

This is very much evident if we trace the history of the world.  When Columbus discovered America,  the inhabitants of the country were the Red Indians.  After Columbus, the Europeans began to flow to America and the Red Indians were slowly washed away from the mainstream of United States of America.  At certain stages the European migrants even massacred the Red Indians to sustain their power in America.
It is the same with Australia also.  The aborigines of Australia were washed away from the mainstream by the European migrants of Australia.  These two migrations were actually something like conquering these countries.  And now these conquerors rule these countries.  I am not finding fault with the present set up or inhabitants of these two countries.  I feel these two nations form a very civilized and economically forward countries and they have an important part to maintain peace in this world.  What I am trying to is just to view the history from a neutral position.  I feel even in my country India, the real owners of the nations are the tribal segments of our country.  But everywhere In the world, the so called civilized society discards them and slowly they will be eradicated from this earth.

The only positive signs I see in my country are that the tribal are given a chance to come up in life in the form of various packages by our Government in the form of free education and employment reservations in all sectors.

I would like to learn more about the other nations in the world who may be offering such helps to the sons of their soil.  Anybody who read this are welcome to educate me in this subject and I will be much thankful to them.  

Friday, 20 July 2012

THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG


THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG



It  is very interesting to analyse what is right and what is wrong.  I have often analysed the right things I had done in the past. On many such analysis, I have come across a finding that many right things I had done earlier are wrong things.  There are many things that seems to be right at a certain age and later when you happen to analyse them, you will find that those were wrong. 

This is because we see things in a peculiar way and we interpret things in  a subjective approach.  Actually what is needed for such an anlysis to find out what is right and what is wrong is an objective approach.  We should come out of our reasons to fix what is right and think from diiferent other perspectives.  If this is possible, then we may find out the actual right thing. 

But it is not an easy thing as it is wriiten here.  It is very easy to write about being objective, but is very difficult to act likewise.  There are many things in this world that we take into considetratiion  which does not exist actually.  One such thing is the axis of the earth.  While studying about the axis, we are taught that it is an imaginary thing.   We can say the axis is a right thing since most of the geographical studies are based upon this axis.  At the same time we can say it is wrong because it is purely an imaginary thing.

Same is the case with the four directions we see in the maps namely, East, West, South and North.  Actually these does not exist,but we use the same for our geographical calculations and to find and fix certain positions.  One position becomes north and south when we change the direction from which you calculate them.  For example, let us imagine the positions of the houses of A, B and C.  The house of A is at the northern side of B and C and C’s house is at the southern side of A and B.  The house of B is at the middle and when we take a view from the A’s house, B’s house is on the south side.  But when we take view from C’s house, B’s house is on the north side.  A point becomes north and south at the same time,  when we change the direction of our view. 

The similar is the case with the right and the wrong.  We interpret a thing from our position and we find it is a right thing.  But when interpreted from a different perspective, the same thing may seem to be wrong. 

I would like to explain that I do believe that right and wrong things exist in this world.  Only thing what I tried to brief here is that there are some things which may seem to be right and at the same time wrong, depending upon the situations.   And my intention is to tell my fellow beings that when you stick to your right things, just give a consideration to other people’s right things also which may give you a chance for a rethinking and get a more clear picture. 

One thing I am sure about is that many things which seems to be right at a certain age becomes wrong at a later stage of your life.  And of course we may also feel a sense of guilt for avoiding some things which we feel as right at a later stage.

All we can do is that when we analyse a thing we may interpret the thing from different perspectives and try to get a clear idea of whether it right or wrong.

Saturday, 14 July 2012

MUSIC AND OTHER ART FORMS IN INDIA


MUSIC AND OTHER ART FORMS IN INDIA



There are many art forms prevalent in this world and people often use these art forms to ease their tensions and to make them feel better.  Music and various art forms have always been a help to the people  from centuries ago.  It is not easy for us to find out when these entertainments were found and who invented them.

But it is a known fact that these entertainments were not meant for the ordinery people in olden times.  Centuries ago,these entertainments were meant only for the rulers, lords and scholars.   For example, dance forms were performed only in front of the rulers and the people who were present in the floor were only those who held key positions in the kingdom.  Music was learned only by the upper class people of the society and was was performed only in front of the royal gatherings.  During these times, the ordinery people were not able to learn dance or music.  Music was considered to be  very noble and was practised only by the upper class, but it was not the case with dance.   Though dance was performed in the royal gatherings, dance was learned only by women of a certain category of families.  In India it was peroformed by women of the Devadasi families,  whose duty was to entertain the royal family. 

Music was considered to be  a devine art form and was practised only by the higher sections of the society and music conerts were performed only in the royal gatherings.  But when years rolled by, there was a gradual change and music concerts began to be performed in the temples at the time of  festivals.  But these festivals were conducted by the royal people and other people were allowed to view the programmes from a distance.  Dance programmes began to appear in the festivals at the temples along with music and slowly music became an inseparable part of dance forms.

The dancers began to perform dances according to the lyrics of the songs and when centuries rolled by, the dancers began to perform a full drama with the help of musicians and lyricists.  Poets began to write their lyrics in the form of a narration and these were performed by the dancers and there was a treamendous change in this art form. 

Slowly the poetic narrration of stories gave way to direct story telling and there was again a change in the acting styles of the dancers.  And this was the origin of the ancient version of the dramas (plays) of the modern times.  Formerly the conversations of the plays were in the poetic styles  and then gradually plays with dialogues were effected and then dance was seperated from  drama.  By this time these art forms had become a part of the ordinery people and when dialogue oriented drama came, they were able to understand the plays. 

Even then, music was an important part of these plays and people began to understand the value of music, since they began to hear it every now and then.  Dance was also included in the plays but only very rarely. 

The invention of Cinema has given a revolutionery change to the whole scenario.  In the olden days cinema was full of dance and music and slowly they were used wisely and cinema became a very interesting part of the common people.   By this time people were enlightened so much that they began to learn music and dance and today there are many a people who make their living with these arts along with acting. 

Again the invention of Television brought another revolution in the art forms and now in India all the art forms depend on television for their survival.  The television serials has become very popular among the Indians and there are a lot of people who make a living with the help of televisions.  After the arrival of televisions, Music, Dance, Cinema, TV Serials etc have become highly popular among the Indian families. 

Surely there will  be further changes in future which may give another welcome dimension to these art forms.

Wednesday, 4 July 2012

TWO DIFFERENT SIDES OF A COIN


TWO DIFFERENT SIDES OF A COIN





During 1970 – 71 , there was a poor old couple who used to visit my house.  During their first visit I was there at my house with my parents.  The old man was very handsome and so too was his wife.  Since they were strangers to us my father enquired them what they want.  At first they did not say a word and we became a little bit uneasy.  When we compelled them to talk, tears began to flow from the old man’s eyes.   Later on he began to brief his position and all of us were moved by their life tragedy.  They belonged to a very well known family and the old man was quite educated and had held a very good position in his career.  He spent his lifetime savings for his only son who was also a well educated young man and  was richly employed.  The couple transferred all their assets to their  only son and found a very beautiful girl for him to marry. 

After the marriage of their son, their life was put to a great risk since their daughter  in law did not like them.  Finally they were thrown out of their house by his son and his wife.  The old man told us about  these incidents with great difficulty and he was struggling for words.  We were very much moved by this story and when I took my eyes from him, I saw my father looking at me.  I did not understand the meaning of that look since I was not that much grown up.  But it is true that look of my  father  haunted me for a long time as it was something peculair.

Later on when I understood the meaning of  that look, I began to give more care to  my father  than I had cared earlier.  I was so specific to make him understand that I will not desert him on any occasion.  I hope that I had tried my level best to look after him untill his death.

All these I write today because I happened  to see an old man on 2nd July 2012 who was a wealthy agriculturist.  The irony of this old man was that he and his wife are left alone in this world and they have no children of their own.  The man transferred all his wealth to his brother’s son on an understanding that he will look after him.  But gradually every thing changed and the old couple were left alone in their house  along with their old age health problems.  The solitude was so unbearable for him and when I happen to meet this old gentleman, he was crying.  The place was one of my friend’s house and I enquired my friend about the old man.  It was he who briefed me about the old man’s life and I  struggled to avoid my tears.  During his sobbing he was trying to tell us his life would have been something different if God had blessed him with a son or daughter.

In the first story, the old man’s life was put to misery by his own son and he had often told us not to rely upon your children.  In the second story, another old man was cursing God why he had not blessed him with a son.   Who is to be blamed for these tragic lives ?   Of course, we are to be blamed since we don’t educate our children in respect of human values.  We did not edcuate them to love every others and to be of help to those who are in misery.  The only edcuation we care for is the academic education and we try our level  best  to make them  cconcentrate on their studies and build up a career.  I do not find fault with concentrating on one’s studies and career since it is hghly appreciable, but at the same time we should try to make them good human beings who has to deliver a rich heritage to the next generation.

If we have the desire to bring up our children as real human beings, then we have to lead our life as  real human beings.  Then only our children will come to understand about  human values.  We should love others and help others who are in need and then our children will understand what love is.  The first syllabus of our children should be the life of their parents and it is our duty to make this syllabus a clear one.

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